Quite a conundrum..Hmm.. I think it may help you to ask yourself the reason why you don’t want to be aromantic/want romantic relationships.. is it because these relationships are more valued by society than those deemed platonic? If so it would help if you tried to shift this mindset.
It may be that you happen to develop the feelings differently or it may take longer. Even if you don’t however, don’t think that that will render you incapable of the relationship you want, or fear that it will result in you ending up ‘alone’.
But fellow followers, do you have any other advice to offer?